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Can you conquer a woman based in this? Yes, but not so fast, dude... She's still got something to show you... Before the final 'I do', women usually test men. They want to see if he is really manful, so, first and above all, she will try to DOMINATE him. Yes! As you just read it! It is on purpose! Here is where many men make the BIG MISTAKE of trying to please her all the time, giving her all what she asks for. Mistake? Yes. She's actually expecting that you will not allow her to dominate you. Learn how to handle that situation without being neither rude nor treating her unchivalrously, and as a last tip, do not think you are living all the time under this test. There is no need to be defensive either.
Other tests women do? One of the women I interviewed confessed me she carried out three tests on her man before actually getting married with him: She made him drink until he could drink no more, to see if he got aggressive with her when he was intoxicated. She also spent a whole afternoon teasing, pestering, annoying, bothering, and humiliating him as she wanted to find out if he was capable of hitting or insulting her when he was really angry or whether he was resentful. The third one was going to a dangerous neighborhood, to see if he was afraid of being held-up or assaulted, or to see if he would abandon her in a dangerous situation.
Why? Because when a woman ultimately becomes a mother (something almost women want to become sooner or later), she knows she will be in a very vulnerable situation. Some women will be always ready to sacrifice her job, career, friends and other things just to be able to look after her children, she wants to make sure her man will not leave her on her own when she most needs to be supported.
Instinct? Maybe, but it is the way they are... Help her feel safe in all these ways and she will be yours as long as you want.
• Every woman is different, so there are not exact rules to understand them.
• Women prefer a sort of "tender jerk" for man: someone romantic, chivalrous, sweet, affectionate, comforting... but at the same time, someone who shows himself masculine, strong, powerful and aggressive, especially before the rest of the world.
• Some women will test you, some will not, so get ready for tests and not to give in your position of man before any woman.
• Show yourself manly and they will like you easier.
• As society evolves, women become more independent, but intimately they have not changed much. Just try to avoid stereotypes and get to know the woman you really have in front of you.
Good luck.